How to build self-confidence?

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How to build self-confidence?
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Self-confidence is an extremely important element in everyone’s life. It affects how others perceive you. It is related to how you present yourself and how open you are. In addition, self-confidence is a very attractive trait in the opposite sex. Learn how to build self-confidence effectively.

Stop comparing yourself to others

Comparing yourself to others is undoubtedly a very big mistake when building self-confidence. This is due to the fact that every person is different and for everyone different things are important. Everyone also has different tolerance limits and mental toughness.

Consider the example of a person who likes to hang around in a small circle of friends comparing himself to one who is the soul of the company. Is one worse than the other? Of course not! Being with a small group of people is just as good as being among a crowd of friends. Realize this and start working on improving yourself rather than focusing on making yourself look like someone else.

Look at others’ evaluations with a grain of salt

How many times have you heard something unkind from a stranger? The natural reaction is to feel sad or angry. But you need to think about whether this person’s opinion matters to you? Who is this person to you?

There is nothing wrong with constructive criticism and expressing your opinion. However, let’s focus on the opinion of people close to us whom we can trust. Only then can you be sure that it is for your own good and not to make you uncomfortable. Excessive concern about the opinion of others significantly disturbs self-esteem, and thus self-confidence. If you learn to look at opinions with a grain of salt, your self-esteem should also rise. 

There is no such thing as perfect!

It seems so obvious, yet not everyone realizes it. Striving for perfection is unattainable. There are no perfect people, because ideal means something different to everyone. Don’t try to be the best at everything and don’t beat yourself up when you make a mistake. Let it be a lesson to you for the future, not a reason to give up the fight for self-confidence. Develop yourself and do what you feel is right.

Nurture your passions and do what you love 

Having passions is the key to happiness and nurturing them is the pleasure in life. There is nothing more beautiful than a person pursuing their passion and enjoying it. Having hobbies and interests helps build self-confidence. This is because of the success you can achieve in your favorite fields. So if you don’t have a passion, try to find one. You may find that this is what you have been missing to improve your self-esteem. 

Don’t pretend to be anyone

Being real is very important in building self-confidence. Naming and talking about your emotions and communicating with others is the key to success. Be authentic, you don’t have to pretend anything to anyone. Above all, don’t pretend anything to yourself.

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